When she asked where to start writing, the little devil in me wanted to say, “In the kitchen, in the office, in the dining room, in the bedroom; wherever you keep your computer. That’s where to start!”
Her fear of starting in the wrong place brings up a deeper issue. We all have fears, be they mild or serious, that thwart our efforts, if we’re not careful. In this case, she was afraid to begin writing a book. I have a project—not a writing project, but still a complicated thing I want to learn—that I keep putting off, because I have fears around it. Oh, I have devised all sorts of excuses, such as I want to wait until I have a large block of time to work on it, or I’m not smart enough to learn it. It’s been bugging me for a couple of months. I should listen to my own advice: just start it! What’s the worst that could happen?
This comment has been removed by the author.
Hello Bobbie,
I liked your answer, "write where your computer is." Six years ago I had a book idea, and it took me three months to write the first draft.
As time passed, I learned more and more about the craft of writing, including your book, "Write in Style." Putting everything I learned including comments from readers groups that I joined, I edited it, chopped it up, cut and deleted and now the finished manuscript is with a professional editor.
Tell your friend to title her work and then begin anywhere. I found that once I had a title on paper the words flowed until the initial draft was completed. The word processors of today will allow her to change and edit after she has finished her first draft.